Friday, 25 September 2015

SATISFYING SEX DURING PREGNANCY


SATISFYING SEX DURING PREGNANCY

ENJOY NEW LEVELS OF INTIMACY AND PLEASURE DURING YOUR FORTY WEEKS JOURNEY. 

Over the course of your pregnancy, your body and mind go through a whirlwind of transformations.Although you could probably do without the moods wings, the dry skin, and the frequent urination, you may be surprised at a few things Mother Nature has in store for you. May be your hair is more manageable or your acne disappears. Most noteworthy, however, is the hormone surge that may increase your arousal. With your newly revved up libido, what better way to truly experience and embrace the changes in your body than through intimacy.

Of course sex is different when you are pregnant, and it changes as as your pregnancy progresses.  here is a look at what to expect in the bedroom during your forty weeks.

IN YOUR FIRST TRIMESTER  

During your first trimester, you may find that you and your partner are more interested in sex than usual. 
No longer having to think about birth control or trying to conceive can be very liberating, and some women find that their private thought and fantasies are racier than usual. Changing in your hormone levels can enhance your interest and your excitement levels, and some women  find that orgasms linger in the trimester, causing a sort of tension in your virginal and clitoris.
But as your breast changes and grow, you may find their stimulation either particularly enjoyable or quite painful, and any morning sickness you suffer may kill your desire.

IN YOUR SECOND TRIMESTER.

If you were suffering from morning sickness in your first trimester and get relive from it in your second, you may rediscover your interest in sex and intimacy and find that they are more enjoyable than ever as you reach your fourth month.
This is especially true because your vagina is more lubricated than usual,and your clitoris and vagina are more sensitive. 
you may find it easier to have an orgasm, or even multiple orgasms, but your partner may may struggle with a fear of hurting the baby, particularly when the baby begins to move and kick so that you can feel the little person growing inside of you.
Reassure your partner that your baby is well protected  and sex will not cause any harm. your baby is suspended in an amniotic sac, protected from the outside world, including the rest of you.
The uterus is completely sealed off from your vagina by a mucous plug, so your baby will not be at all bothered. You may notice that your baby is ery active after your orgasm. This is because of your pounding heart, not because your baby feels any pain or discomfort.

IN YOUR THIRD TRIMESTER.

By the time you have reached your third trimester, your pregnant body is dramatically different from your pre-pregnancy body. some women glory in their body's new shape and fullness, but others don't feel quite comfortable with it. How you perceive your body can have a big impact on hoe much you crave and enjoy sex in these months as can your back pain and your energy level, which may flag at times, most men go nuts about their partner's pregnant body and love its exaggerated femaleness.
Many couples enjoy experimenting with new positions when it becomes necessary to find alternatives to the missionary. 
Popular options include spooning  with your partner behind you, on your hands  and knees, on top, or lying on your side with your knee pulled up. if your baby's head has moved deep within your pelvis, you may experience a bit of pain or spotting during sex, but it's nothing to worry about and easy to avoid with shallow penetration or entry from behind. 
The  constant engorgement of your vagina and clitoris, makes it easier for you to reach orgasm. During an orgasm, you may notice that your uterus goes into spasms, and closer to your due date, you may feel contractions for about half an hour after sex. There is no need to to worry about inspiring preterm labor because until your cervix is ready, you won't go into labor. Sex has been credited, however, with jump starting labor once your body is ready.

While for most women sex is okay,and even encouraged, during pregnancy, it is always a good idea to talk to your doctor about it. generally, sex should not be a problem during your pregnancy, unless you are bleeding, you are at risk for premature birth, your partner has an active sexually transmitted disease, or your water has broken or leaking.

AFTER BABY IS BORN

Obstetricians recommend that you limit your sex activity after you give birth because your genital tissues need a chance to heal completely from the rigors of delivery, and it si ery important that you avoid infection during the healing process. Traditionally women have been advised to wait six weeks after delivery to resume sexual intercourse, some obstetricians recommend waiting for four weeks,, until the postpartum discharge from the vagina, called lochia, stops flowing. But if you don't have any tears to worry ,manual or oral stimulation of the clitoris is more than fine anytime after birth.
Still some women aren't interested.they find that their sex drive is in neutral in the first weeks and months after their baby is born. Sometimes this is because the healing process is not yet complete or because they fear pain. The best way to overcome the fear of pain is to take control and guide your partner through sex.

BREASTFEEDING

Breastfeeding has also been known to to dampen your desire. it has an impact on your hormone levels, so if you find that your period is slow to return, you may also find that your libido is slow to resurface. Some couples find breast leakage during sex awkward, and some women that all the breastfeeding they are doing satisfies their need for touch, and they aren't much interested in any more.Of course, the exhaustion associated with being a new parent can also kill your sex drive. Caring for a new baby claims much of the time and energy you need t to have for being together as a couple, sexually and romantically. But take heart! soon, you will have the energy and the interest, and many couples report that sex after birth is better than ever before. Who knew you would derive more than just a beautiful baby out of your pregnancy?
ALL GLORY BE TO GOD. !

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